A few weeks ago in my comments about Tripp’s methodologies I stated that I would use far more practical strategies and tools than he had alluded to in the body of his book. I guess reading the appendices is a good thing for that reason! This third appendix has been very helpful as far as implementing practical strategies for counseling- and not only for formal counseling, but also for personal counseling. I agree that one must begin with searching one’s own heart before approaching others and offering counsel. However, for myself I find examining my own heart can be such a fruitless exercise if the methodologies don’t lead in the right direction. Even now, after reading this section, I know there are areas in my life that need closer examination, and especially illumination and change through the Spirit of Christ. However, I first of all hesitate to go there because of the mess that I will find, and secondly, because of a functional theology that somehow I will be going backward in the process of sanctification if I uncover more deeply rooted sins. Therefore, it is simply easier to go on blindly in life and not pursue a more in-depth look at myself.
I suppose that this is why God did not think that man being alone was a good idea. He made us to live in community where iron sharpens iron. However, my pride so easily gets in the way. I do not want to be vulnerable, to be exposed. I do not want to ask myself some of the necessary tough questions, much less have someone else ask me them.
I have recognized in my own life, even this past weekend, where I am evasive, defensive, and even angry. While I knew there was something other the God ruling my heart at those moments, I did not ask God to reveal to me what it was specifically. I brushed it off simply as sinful behavior, and tried to modify my attitude and actions. I pray that realizing this now, God will continue to rock my boat so I will deal with these issues in a way that leads to true repentance and real heart change.
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